NTA - I'd tell Mom she'd better stfu and stop enabling or else she's going to be uninvited too. What they have done to him is downright CRIMINAL. Tires slashed?? NTA. Will he go to the hospital like a pussy?". Your male relations are bullies. He stole my moms car a few times and stole from me. These pranks are blatant disrespect for OPs fianc and OP herself. NTA. NTA, You set a healthy boundary with your family (which is difficult to do) and they violated that. Thats violent and harassment. You have already been uninvited, just let bygones be bygones. They aren't pranking him, they are bullying him. Yeah, the way they disregard his asthma and brush it off as excuses. NTA. Yep. Who stands up for what is right? He could press charges for that. Internet Backs Woman Who Uninvited Dad, Brother From Wedding Over Prank By Samantha Berlin On 3/11/22 at 2:41 PM EST Culture Reddit Wedding Family Prank A soon-to-be bride went viral after. On of my very adult colleagues is called "Timmy" by everyone, and if you call him "Tim" he'll (nicely) correct you. You know. None of these are harmless. But you and your fiance know it could have easily been fatal. ESH minus your Fianc who should gtfo to be honest. What kind of fiance would you be if you didn't stand up for him? Yeah NTA sorry doesn't cut it, what if he had an asthma attack? not everyone uses them. OP mentioned demanding they stop. OP, it sounds like the men in your family are jerks and hoping your future husband wont disrupt their dysfunction. Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. Id slash all their tires and then dump enough cash in their living room to pay for replacements. The men in your family are a bunch of nut jobs. This isnt a prank anymore and abuse. They should see how horrifying it is for someone to slowly lose oxygen and suffocate to death, and then ask them if it was funny. OP has to show Tim that she is on his side no matter what. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. You're right to make a stance. I'd go no contact over this. Just they just seem like big bullies to me. if you have any evidence they slashed his tires, report it to the police. Nuff said. This is seriously so fucked up. As a person with asthma, I see their prank as abhorrent. Thats not an excuse, honestly. You just gotta stop being so sensitive. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. 2) There is nothing wrong with the name Timmy. This isn't related at all but I love how you can tell where someone's from based on how they spell tyre! I would go NC with all of them. Not slashing tires or stealing medication. What the fuck is wrong with these people? If they asked where he was, he was with his own family, but I was going to see them later. Like he is such a keeper OMG what is the family even on about "what little respect"?!?! Pranks aren't supposed to cost the person being pranked money. Theyre not used to anyone standing up to them. Your fianc could have died! I would stick to not inviting them. I would contact to acquire an admission of guilt and then take them to court. OP grew up with this. My cousin is begging that we talk, my uncle has been quiet, but dad is so mad and now he's getting mom involved to get me to reconsider this decision. This guy should dump her and her toxic family and marry in to a family of decent human beings. What if you had a son? Did they pay for those tires? Words simultaneously have no meaning at all and all of their possible meanings. I hate to say it, but she set him up for it. Who wants to be treated like that for the rest of their life? What would they have done then? He was abusive in every way but was a master manipulator. The Homo Sapiens hid all their inhalers as a prank. Standing up for your fiance is the best thing you could have done, and honestly if they don't change their attitude real quick, uninviting them is definitely the best answer. They're committing pretty serious crimes against him and they belong in jail not at his fucking wedding. Stop trying to make him love you. At the time I commented, pretty much everyone was saying NTA. she said im to keep the money if i sell the tickets (both mine and hers). They gave him a likely impossible task just to haze her partner. I would hope there can be some direct communication between everyone to tide things over. The guy: Oh, did you put it in the right spot? He could have died. If you listen to your mom and re-invite them, you don't deserve your fiance. At what point during his asthma attack would they be able to tell if he was being soft or if it was real? NTA they took the pranks way too far. Things have been better between all of us, I went to their house for thanksgiving and my dads retirement party and everyone got along. Cut ties with everyone, save your poor poor fiance more pain then the abuse he already went trough for you, and apologize to him in behalf of your family. If you have a son, do you want your family to test him this way? If not, they really should be smarter than that. Threatened much because hes more intellectual than physical? Yta for letting them do this to him for so long, but absolutely not NTA for uninviting them. NTA. Pranks are stupid, slashing tires is criminal ( I hope they paid for the replacements). I would have been gone the moment I realized my "partner" thought any of this was okay. You would also be the asshole if you stay in contact with them and therefore subject Tim to further contact with them as well. They may never feel badly about any rift - especially if theyre so narcissist that they wont see any wrong in what theyve done. NTA. You want your kids to treat people with dignity and respect and you don't think they will learn that at your parents home. Yeah i would have been off the fence after the tires. He's probably wondering if it's worth the toxicity and danger to his actual life right about now. If they are going to test your bf like that what kind of tortures do they have in store for future kids. if something is destroyed or someone gets hurt (regardless of intention) then it is not a prank. NTA. Oh wait. My/my child's/my friend's/a complete stranger's inhaler is empty/missing! NTA. I wonder what they would do if OP was engaged to a big dude with anger issues. This is extremely serious; he could have died. Your family members' actions (all of them, not just the inhaler stuff) are idiotic, unwarranted, and demeaning. NTA. NTA that's not pranks, that's bullying. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. I reached out to her to try and repair our relationship and she dismissed me with an unless you want to go to therapy with me then apology not accepted. NTA she was totally unconsiderate to you. NTA- they slashed his tires? So, yeah - man up and die for real. I told him I need to know if he is coming to walk me down the aisle and have our dance and he said he doesnt know and we will see. I dont know where you are in the world OP, but where I live slashing someones tyres would be a criminal offence. Sounds like he's put up with so much already for your sake. And that's not even getting into how dangerous and stupid their "pranks" were. Live your life, be Happy, graduate, write on reddit, do whathever you want with YOUR Life. If i were Tim, Id be very wary about marrying into your family. Agreed. You would be TA if you invited your fianc's bullies (aka your family) to your wedding. ^ This exactly. O no someone went to post secondary education. I am assuming your fiance has been putting up with this out of respect for you and your family. I, 22f, and my dad have had a tumultuous relationship for the last 5 years. This. Youve subjected him to a lot and youve let A LOT slide. Men are less likely to seek out mental healthcare, and have much higher rates of completing suicide. And if someone almost killed my husband over a ill-planned prank they definitely wouldn't be invited into our lives anymore either. Hiding inhaler is not a joke and slashing his car tires, i assume they paid money to get things right? Bullying and witholding a life saving medication are another. Everyone should be laughing and no one's life should be in danger over one. Maybe see what your cousin has to say (BC the nature of his panicking, it might be that he wants to genuinely apologise, at least that's how I've read it,) but as far as I'm concerned you'd be better cutting them all off. I was living with them and did what he wanted. Yeah, garage would make me think of parking too cause it's the same word in German, but it's sometimes just difficult to remember or think of the various names for services and shops as they either depend on US vs UK (or other places too) or are e.g. He couldve literally died for a prank. They just sound like a bunch of assholes!! My dad told me everything about their divorce and how awful my mom was. NTA at all. Timmy didn't drive the wedge between you and your family. Who makes them the judge of what is a good man? - Reddit, I mean GONDOR calls for aid!! He shouldn't have to be subjected to them for the rest of his life. for months. You know what you should do if you have a family full of bullies? If your cousin does want to talk, then I'd set out some serious ground rules first, but let him talk, after all if he is genuinely sorry and willing to admit he was a dick as well as apologise to your fiance then, he deserves a second chance. Even if they apologize, this oversized kids need to understand there are consequences to their action, even if they are jOkEs. Im glad you fell far enough from the family tree to speak your mind. Your fiance is a saint and by everything sacred in the world must he love you alot to stick with you! Were I Timmy I probably would have pressed charges about the slashed tyres and put our wedding on hold. That was about two years ago, fast forward to now. NTA they gone far beyond pranks are just bullying him now. If someone slashed my tires Id be screwed. After texting thier wives for the address haha. by AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast) AITApod (Am I The A**hole Podcast) By Danny Vega & Sara Levine Danny Vega, TikTok cringelord, and Sara Levine, meme queen master's student, read listener submissions & pilfer from the similarly-named subreddit. If you and Tim chance to have a son, dont let him anywhere near your male relatives. Cookie Notice REAL men's lips turn red like the blood of our poached kill!!". But in this case, the victim is the one feeling bad for the familial rift - which is really normal since hes the normal one of the group. The question shouldnt be whether or not theyre invited to your wedding. I doubt she will stand up to them further. I f22 grew up in a family where men prank and tease each others. NTA by far. Yet I still had a feeling something would happen when it came to my wedding. Therapy can help too. NTA - hold your ground. Pranks are supposed to be fun for both side and I don't think it was the case here nor before. Wtf. NTA you family sounds exhausting. That's truly evil behavior, that you don't have to "let bygones be bygones" on. Theyve shown theyre committed enough to this to endanger another persons life, no one should be doing anything with the expectation theyre going to have a sudden change of heart and develop empathy. Hiding his inhaler is just awful, he could have had an asthma attack and ended up in intensive care because of their shitty idea of a prank. If I was their SO I wouldnt have stayed after that. Privacy Policy. They made their living off the land and were proud of that. When they cry, they can be told real men meet their financial obligations or post their own bail. Obviously, OP is NTA for booting them from the wedding. Also think of the future. Throughout my life he was forcing me to take sides in wars I should've never been involved in but at 19 I finally refused to take a side. I really hope you make them pay for the tires they slashed. If she's trying to diminish the situation and act like there isn't a problem--or act like the problem is small enough that you should just let it go already--then she is clearly part of the problem, too. Privacy Policy. I suggest you tell them that you understand that they're intimidated by someone with a real education and who idea of fun isn't dumb jock humour but that you move beyond such immature behaviour and they're out of your life altogether until they apologise to TIM and if they ever "prank" him again they out for ever. At same time, I'm sorry Op, if I was Tim, I might rethink about marriage to your family, your family is asshole. I think you all let it go to far before you stood up for him. Right?! NTA. Be a man!!!. You should do Timmy a favor and choose between him and your toxic family. Dont let any of those family members ruin an extremely special day between you and Tim. I'm firmly with you on banning them from the wedding (and, honestly, everything else too). So, in theory my lung could open up more. My dad is technically my stepdad but he is the only dad I have ever known. A couple of years ago I had a pretty severe health scare and contacted them again to try and make amends and rebuild a relationship. Think of your incredible fianc. Also when I had no health insurance I almost was literally about to die of the paramedics where a few minutes late then they where. Doesn't matter if it's family or not! Your fianc needs to know you have his back when it comes to people who are so awful to him for no real reason. If anyone is ever looking for an example, this might as well be it. The offending pranksters would have gotten a bill from us. NTA your family aren't trying to bond with your fiance. Im surprised youre the first person to say all this. Theyre both so young. Have your fianc sit down with the four of them (with you present) and tell them to their faces they are not invited. I knew a lot of stuff was bad or unhealthy, but I'm still learning things even to this day. It was infuriating and that was just a case of bad luck. I'm on the hope the stepdad pulls his money out of her wedding train too. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? Why are these guys hanging up to keep OP from a healthy relationship? Your family for obvious reasons, and you for letting this go on for that long and being spineless enough to not put boundaries earlier. Like just breathe bro /s, Bro you need to breathe into a tube to live? 5th house stellium meaning; how to handle being dumped with dignity; send a wave on facebook; international scout.He wrote: " AITA for uninviting my mom from my . Have someone at the door of your wedding venue ready to kick them off the property. Your family is not doing pranks they are awful bullys and terrorizing him. This is no joke. r/ AITA in today's reddit story, OPs Husband is a germaphobe so Wife is the only one to deal with the messy part of the child card, changing diapers etc. I hadnt seen a doctor in a decade due to lack of health care and this guy straight up told me he hasnt either even after a heart attack. Family stands together always is a toxic line and enables further toxicity. I hope she learns to put him before her extended family. Yeah It took me way too long to realise that the crime there is very simple. Its a messy situation and it will most likely be a rocky marriage as your family set the tone for it with their nonsense trying to test your partners manliness. How he didnt dip after that I just dont understand. Your family went in the bullying / torture zone with their pranks. What they did was just so cruel. Fast forward to my graduation. When the complain have him directly tell them to stop whining and take it like men do. He might not be at that point yet, but he is getting VERY close. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. Check out our upcoming Reddit Talk With John Hodgman on January 18th @ 7pm EST. Having to replace all four tires is no joke. OP needs to go no contact with these Neanderthals if she wants to marry this poor guy. They are abusive, this is one of the worst examples of toxic masculinity I have ever come across. Wtf is wrong with these guys! Contest mode is 1.5 hours long on this post. And what you cannot do is allow this to continue, because Tim doesn't deserve to spend the rest of his life being tortured by your extended family. What your sister did was shitty, she let you down and made you waste 90. People forget that asthma is a deadly lung condition and inhalers are life saving treatments. Hiding an inhaler can cause DEATH. I think this is more of a fuck with me and find out situation. Thats a lot of shit I would not put up with. They can feel like real men now. They need to massively apologize. NTA they took his medication! I got into the college I wanted to go to, but passed on it to go to community college at home to save money. Do you guys have kids? Problem was I need my car for work. Why aren't you protecting your fiance from these assholes? This is THE hill to die on. Bullies are going to bully, but at least if you elope, they won't have the opportunity and no one else will be asking you where your dad and brother are. And they just showed you they've no idea where the line between pranks and fatal consequences is. It's not funny, it's messed up. NTA Sorry, you do NOT deserve to be treated like this. Stick with your fianc, start your own family and use them as examples of what not to turn out like. This is what its like to be part of a narcissists world. Mom Kicking Teen Daughter Out To Make Room for Her 'Hobby' Sparks Outrage,"How unbelievably cruel she is to her own child to prioritize an art room over her daughter," commented one Reddit user. NTA. My dad (50 M) and I (24 F) have had a complicated relationship. Totally agree. totally agree. You can certainly take them on trips and include them in the family activities and all that, but always follow the number one rule of life, Don't be a dick. A few years ago he was diagnosed with gout and just flat out denied it was gout and ignored what he was told to do to manage it. The opposite in fact. Seriously, these arent pranks. He'd still be here if his thinking wouldn't have been "I'm not going to the doctor, they just find things wrong with you." My dad said that he didnt know if he would be able to attend because I have not put the past behind us. You can die from an asthma attack! For example, i won a scholarship through my dads work two years in a row and only had two tickets for the ceremony. Wtf is your dad smoking? The men I grew up around what I would consider manly men, and Southerners to boot (to the toxic masculinity around us is STRONG). Right. I say elope. Instead he has a lot of grit to put up with these AHs. OP, these arent pranks. The men of your family are toxic. Asthma is a serious medical condition and if he had had an attack and they couldn't find his stolen medication, he could have been in a world of trouble. But while its slightly soothing to me and my core family to know that basically, I cough. These are no pranks, this is bullying. If I sat there and let one of my weird relatives bully him, or god forbid, put his life in danger, (say, for example, by hiding an important medical device like an inhaler) hed be fully justified in running for the damn hills. YTA. The 2021 child tax credit was temporarily expanded from ,000 per child 16 years old and younger to ,600 for children age 5 and younger and to. NAH But honestly you have to have a talk with her and explain what youre feeling. This, Im shocked they are engaged, he must really love her. Its your responsibility to make sure your family members are abusing your partner under the disguise of tests and pranks. I doubt anyone here would find the choice so easy if they got stuck with it either. They need to fuck all the way off. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Just a quick reminder to never brigade any sub, be that r/AmItheAsshole or another one. lol they have lost respect for your fiance? My relationship with my stepdad has been problematic from the very beginning. Abuse. After a few minutes of raucous razzing, you can hand them a small item and tell them they can remove the straws, taking at first only one regular breath, then back to the straw, then one regular breath, alternating for another 10 minutes. just an umbrella term or have multiple meanings. Your male family members sound like toxic sexist AH, who love bullying under the pretense of how manly they are. And your mom isnt any better for enabling them. It's absolutely fucked! They are awful people. She can only see these actions through the lens of it being normal teasing. NTA. They've shown who they are and they aren't going to change. Everyone here takes the right choice as a foregone conclusion, but Id spend days having a panic attack if that was thrust on me. Putting frogs in people's beds isn't cool either, if someone came on here and said their family kept leaving frogs in their fiance's bed no one would say, "haha good one, tell your fiance to quit freaking out over such a funny joke.". If her family doesn't kill the groom first. That's some courage, at 22. Do not just uninvite them from your wedding, uninvite them from your life. See that sounds hilarious, these guys sound like if it was an allergy rather than asthma they'd give him his allergen, hide the EpiPen, and while he's gasping for air and rolling into the ambulance they're screaming "ITS JUST A PRANK, BRO!!" I agree!! Your family were bullying, harassing, and assaulting your fiance, and until they understand the severity of their actions and apologize, I wouldn't ever allow myself to be alone with them again if I were him. I am a woman who grew up in a very masculine family. This is 200% bullying bordering on harrassment and they need to be punished accordingly. These are crimes, not pranks, and for adults to feed off each other like this is incredibly disturbing. Destroying property too? Your cousi, brother, uncle and dad are TA for what they have done. Ask yourself if you would let a stranger treat you this way. Yup. Slashing my tires- vandalism and theft.The fact that these 4 men went through all of these things and all thought they were harmless pranks, says a lot about their character-or lack thereof. Ask them who was going to take responsibility if he died. This is bullying and real dangerous stuff. OOP can fucking choke. Tires are fucking expensive as hell. I wouldnt want them near me on my wedding day. This guy could describe all of this behavior to a third party and leave them thinking hes being stalked by a violent gang after witnessing a crime. ESH except your fianc. And agreed, fiancee must really love OP to put up with this for so long. They could have killed him. Ask your dad how he feels about the respect that you and Tim have lost for him as a human being?? Welcome to the end times. A couple of the times this has happened it has been a small heart attack. Cant have no man treating his daughter like an equal person and human being /s . Basically is he a good person and are you happy in the relationship. I remember when someone first suggested I was being emotionally abused, I thought they were being ridiculous. They never thought lesser of me for being a woman, or my best friend for being gay. Plugs are only good for punctures more then an inch or two away from the sides. They could of killed him. Also asthma has a genetic component, so any children Tim has could also end up developing it. Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. I was hospitalized and they were draining fluid from around my lungs (?). If your mother ends up not going at least she has made her choice and you know that. I was livid and called him out, but argued with my mother about it and about how she allowed this to happen. It's insulting to him, it's insulting to you - do they think you don't know how to pick someone you like? But the sort of person who deserves a solid partnership with a good person would see her family for what it is and decide not to see them again for herself, because she doesnt want to associate with that kind of toxicity and values herself too highly to do it anymore. Hiding the inhaler was criminal! Ask your dad if he's run to mummy to tattle? Its just a joke is just the typical response to make it seem less harmful and make the victim out to be exaggerating. So funny. They aren't men. What happens when they want to start testing the manliness of a child and start with these pranks? If they wanted to be at your wedding they would have respected both you and your fiance instead of bully/assault him. maybe they'll change their tune about "pranks" after that. My question would be why the hell op allowed it to go this far without imposing consequences on her family. NTA a prank is a Whoopie Cushion not slashing tires. Perfect response, thisnis what I would say. But if you only slash 3 tires you have to pay out of pocket. I would presume that they had a similar experience with him.". you're acting like a responsible adult, he's acting like a spoiled child. This is constant bullying and it'll never stop. Are they going to test the boys? As a guy, this is beyond "toxic masculinity". NTA he's mad you are learning what healthy relationships look like and creating boundaries. Typical snowflakes if you ask me. You think they wanted to hear he was FOR gender equality? That how they drained mine, too, so maybe I got the wrong term there. Imagine kids growing in a family where grampa insists on teaching him "hOw tO Be a MaN, beCauSE HiS fatHer iS sOft". Theyre just acting sorry because youre making a stink about it. They didnt back down when verbally harassing him didnt work, they escalated to physical violence against his vehicle, and when that didnt work, they endangered his person. Only yours should matter. They committed at least one crime. These aren't "pranks" and what sort of fucking adult even "pranks" people anyway. Tell them that real men don't need such immature posturing. They're trying to scare him away, not test him. Its about living or dying. Dad and his cronies are all abusive assholes. TBH, if I were your fianc, I'd probably end the relationship if you DONT go NC with them, because they're literally dangerous to him. I literally freaked out because I definately want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried talking to them but they were being stubborn, after talking to my fiance I had no choice but to politely uninvite my stepdad and sending him an email stating why. And he was abused/ hazed. In the eyes of the law, if your fianc had died, they could be charged with manslaughter or even murder. i think you should do more than just uninvite them to the wedding honestly. Damn. NTA. NTA. NTA. This is what I was thinking. If you dont draw a line in the sand their nasty toxic behaviour (so called pranks) will never end. Family up and ruined the relationship with her and her apparently saintly fiance who still wants to marry her after all of this and hasn't had these people arrested. There is archaeological evidence which suggests that Neanderthals cared for their relatives with health problems: Neanderthals would be disgusted by this behaviour. From what you've said I sure don't. I absolutely hate when doctors don't warn you about a scary possibility like that. Sometimes that is worth the peace of mind, and sometimes it isn't. Is this how you would want them to treat any future children you have? Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. Either dump the family, or dump the fianc so that he can find someone better. You should have stopped this at the very least when they slashed his tires, but even before then, the idea that they need to test his manliness is infantilizing, misogynistic, and toxic as hell. Enjoy the rest of your life with your fianc. Keep giving your family a wedgie. NTA. I hope that they see the error of their ways and apologized to Tim but until then, I guess you might have to go no contact. Call them out intellectually or use their fear against them and watch how they retract. They are criminals acts and dangerous abuse. Your family sucks. From expensive property damage to verbal abuse to life threatening actions. It's just a prank! Tow it to a tire shop. And if you decide to have kids one day, how do you think they will treat your innocent children to toughen them up. Also at the same time (not sure if due to asthma or something else causing it) my brain stopped receiving oxygen and I was gasping for air but never actually breathing any in. Call them out intellectually or use their fear against them they retract. But that is your SO's access to AIR. My dad (50 M) and I (24 F) have had a complicated relationship. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. They're the ones that have broken the trust. A lot. I really hope they paid for the damage when they slashed his tyres. Youre NTA but you will be if you force your future husband to be around them. You're actually still nice in my opinion and your family members are AHs, including your mum to be honest! YTA for letting this happen to your fianc. 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